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Facts About Domestic Violence
 | Every 15 seconds in the U.S. a woman is beaten. |
 | Domestic violence results in more injuries that require medical
attention than rape, accidents and muggings combined. |
 | Two in five women who are murdered are killed by their husbands. |
 | At least 95 percent of all cases of partner abuse involve a man
beating a woman. |
 | Woman abuse happens in all classes and races. It occurs at every
level of income and education. |
 | Violence in the home usually becomes more frequent and severe over
time. The abuser’s apologies do not mean the violence will not
occur again. |
 | Children who grow up in violent homes come to believe that
violence is normal. They come to believe that it is an acceptable
way to control someone else. The majority of adult violent prisoners
were raised in violent homes. |
 | Violence is often part of a pattern of threats, insults, insane
jealousy, explosive temper, and attempts to isolate and overpower
the woman. |


Myths About Domestic Violence
 | MYTH: A man’s home is his
castle. No one should interfere with the family.
 | FACT: Battery is a crime!
No one has the right to beat another person.
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 | MYTH: A woman who gets beaten
brings it upon herself by nagging or provoking her spouse.
 | FACT: People are beaten
for reasons as ridiculous as: the dinner is cold; the TV was
turned to the wrong channel; the baby was crying. Abusive people
refuse to control their violent impulses. Even where the person
may have reason to be angry, they have no right to express their
anger violently.
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 | MYTH: A person who stays with
an abuser after being beaten must like to be beaten.
 | FACT: Being beaten hurts
and no one likes it. There are many reasons why victims remain
with abusers including their fear of further violence, the
financial hardship of leaving, religious reasons, their
emotional attachment to their partners, and their belief that
families should stay together. |
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Is This Happening in Your
Relationship?
Domestic violence is when one person tries to control another.
It is a cycle which repeats itself.



Massachusetts Homicides 2003
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Jan.
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Feb.
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March
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April
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May
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June
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July
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Aug.
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Sept.
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Oct.
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Nov.
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Dec.
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Women
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2
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2
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1
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1
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3
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1
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Children
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1
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Men
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1
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1
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Bystanders
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1
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Family
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Cases
Needing More Info
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Total
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3
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1
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2
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1
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1
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5
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1
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Massachusetts Homicides 2002
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Jan.
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Feb.
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March
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April
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May
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June
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July
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Aug.
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Sept.
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Oct.
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Nov.
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Dec.
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Women
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1
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1
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3
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1
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3
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1
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1
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1
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Children
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4
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Men
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1
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Bystanders
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1
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2
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1
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Family
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1
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Cases
Needing More Info
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Total
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1
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2
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3
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1
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3
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3
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1
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5
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3
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Homicides 1991-2001
Year
Women
Children
Men
Bystanders
Family
Total
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1991
21
3
2
1
2
29
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1992
27
11
2
5
2
47
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1993
23
4
5
1
2
35
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1994
21
2
4
0
0
27
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1995
31
3
6
4
2
46
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1996
14
3
4
2
2
25
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1997
16
3
2
1
2
24
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1998
13
0
6
0
0
19
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1999
20
2
0
12
0
34
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2000
17
3
0
0
0
20
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2001
11
0
4
2
0
17
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Domestic Violence - What Can
You Do?
Orders of Protection
 | An Order of Protection is a legal order from a judge used to help
protect victims of domestic abuse. It contains "remedies"
which order an abuser to take certain actions or prohibits him from
taking certain actions. The abuser, listed as the
"respondent," can be arrested for violating certain
remedies listed in an order of protection. A protected person cannot
be arrested for violating an Order of Protection. |
How to Obtain an Order of Protection:
An order of protection is available to family or household members
who have suffered domestic abuse. Request an Order of Protection by:
 | Contacting a local domestic violence program and asking for help.
To locate the nearest program, call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). |
 | Going to the local circuit clerk’s office and asking for help. |
 | Asking an attorney to file a petition in civil court (such as
divorce court). |
 | Requesting an order after criminal charges have been filed. |
What if You Decide to Stay?
 | An Order of Protection may help. Consider these safety tips: |
 | Change the locks. |
 | Install a security system, smoke alarms and outside lights. |
 | Pre-program emergency numbers into the telephone. |
 | Tell neighbors and ask they call police right away if they see the
abuser. |
 | Notify work and try to arrange for your calls to be screened. |
 | Report any violation of the Order of Protection right away. Call
9-1-1. |
What if You Decide to Leave?
Leaving an abusive relationship, even for a short time, can be
difficult and dangerous. Leaving can be made easier and safer when you
involve police and victim advocates and remember to bring along the
following items:
 | Money, your checkbook, credit cards, ATM cards |
 | Identification (for self and the children): birth certificates,
social security cards, welfare I.D., school and work I.D., green
cards, work permits, etc. |
 | Important papers such as your divorce papers; school records;
lease, rental agreement or house deed; and insurance papers |
 | Order of Protection–if you have one, keep it with you at all
times. |
 | Medical records |
 | Medications (prescription and over-the-counter) |
 | Keys for car, house and work |
 | Change of clothing |
 | Address book |
 | Mortgage/rent payment book |
 | Current unpaid bills |
 | Pictures or other items of sentimental value |
 | Children’s favorite toys, blankets or other items |


What Must the Police Do?
Police officers must take action to protect the victim of domestic
abuse. This includes:
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Arrest the abuser when there is enough information
to believe a crime has been committed.
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Accompany victim to remove personal belongings from
their home and provide for the victim’s transportation to a safe
place.
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Inform victim of the procedures and relief available
and their right to file charges against the abuser
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Complete a police report and provide the officer’s
name and ID# to victims.
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Domestic Related Resource Links & Sites
Other Resources:
National Domestic Violence Coalition hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
TDD: 1-800-787-3224
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